It’s not you.
It’s me.
Really, it’s me.
I’ve decided to take a break. Not a long one. But a needed one.
I’ve been trying to finish up the second (and hopefully final) draft of my book to get it off to my kick-ass editor by mid-December (more about her later, but for now I’ll just say that she’s amazing), but with everything going on with ONE, the book got moved from the backseat to the trunk.
So now that things are finally getting better at home and I can focus back on the creative, I’m stepping out of the blog arena until my book is done.
On a positive note, ONE is doing much better. I’ll write all about it when I’m back because so much has happened, but I wanted to give a huge THANK YOU to everyone who voiced concern and support and ideas a few weeks ago.
Our first visit with the child therapist went really well. She gave us some great, practical tools that have already made a huge differece. But just like with anything else, you address one issue and it uncovers three more, so we’ve got lots more work to do. But ONE is happy. She’s even happy at school. Last week went so well that she wanted to bake cookies to bring to class. What’s that? Chocolate chip cookie dough for lunch? Bring it!
In the meantime, for those of you who stick around I’m syndicating myself and putting a new/old post on my main page each day until I’m back. It won’t go through to your blog readers or show up on blog pages, since I’ll just be putting it on the front page. I’ll still be around to read comments and emails and stuff on Twitter, but I have to cut it off there because if I’m not careful I’ll spend all of my time not writing.
And again, to all of my readers and lurkers and commenters and friends, THANK YOU. Being a mom can be a lonely struggle sometimes, and as lame as this sounds, I’ve never felt as good about being a mom as I have since meeting all of you through this blog. Even those of you who don’t say anything, you don’t have to. I know you’re there and that’s more than enough.
-CK
PS: I already miss my daily reads, but you guys know I’ll be back as soon as I can. See you then!
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November 16, 2009 at 12:33 am |
good luck to you! i’m looking forward to reading more when you return.
November 16, 2009 at 12:46 am |
Dude, you have a lot going on! Good luck with the book but you don’t need luck, you’re a kickass writer.
Mmmmmmmm. Cookie dough.
November 16, 2009 at 12:52 am |
Will it help if I cry? How about if I beg? Will you not leave me if I beg? Okay, never mind. I understand. That’s what relationships are about, right? Sacrifice? I effing HATE sacrifice. But, don’t worry I’ll be here when you get back, possibly all prozac-ed out, but here. Waiting. XOXO!
Oh, and hurry up!
November 16, 2009 at 1:15 am |
Did I miss the post where you talked about your book? So exciting!
And best of luck writing. I recommend a comfy cushion, really good mood music, and snacks.
AND…I’m so happy I met you. Since you’re saying nice stuff about your readers. Thought I’d spin some love back your way.
November 16, 2009 at 1:30 am |
Bye, I miss you already.
November 16, 2009 at 1:55 am |
Oh, man, it’ll be totally worth going through BMM withdrawl to get to see that book. I’m drooling.
And *so* so so so so glad things are progressing with ONE. Geez, that was just heartbreaking to read and to think about and to hover over my soul for weeks, so I can’t imagine what it did to you and your husband to go through all that.
Hope holidays and break and writing and child psychology all make this the best end of the year EVER!
November 16, 2009 at 3:18 am |
You take all the time you need! Being a Mommy and taking great care of your child comes first, but you know that
I am a lurker..I think I’ve commnted once before..not sure.
Can’t wait for your return!
November 16, 2009 at 6:02 am |
Good decision. We’re always here so we’ll miss you and look forward to you coming back – but you have way more important things to do than provide our daily entertainment. Big hugs, enjoy the break. xxx
November 16, 2009 at 8:13 am |
Yeah, I seem to have missed the post about your book too! And about ONE…oh dear! I will need to go back and have a look…don’t worry, we’ll be here when you return. Sometimes life just gets too hectic and things need to be prioritised! Do come back soon and let us know how you are getting along! xxx
November 16, 2009 at 8:25 am |
okay, a little more up to scratch now having gone back a few entries but not sure about the book still…I am glad to hear One is doing better. Poor little mite. Sounds like you got a lot of good advice and support. Blogging is great in that way isn’t it? Keep your chin up – there is a lot of positivity and love being directed your way xxx
November 16, 2009 at 10:06 am |
As one of my daily doses of sanity, I will terribly miss reading you…but hope that your time *away* is productive and inspired. Also, so glad to hear about ONE’s progress, you are a wonderful mommy.
November 16, 2009 at 10:12 am |
I call bullshit.
But seriously, good for you and good for ONE. And good luck with finishing your book.
November 16, 2009 at 10:28 am |
Good luck with finishing your book…we’ll see ya when you get back!
November 16, 2009 at 10:37 am |
Girl, you focus on that book and WORK IT, because we are all rubbing our hands together in anticipation. It’s going to be terrific, just like you. I’m in awe that you’re able to do it!
I look forward to reading old pieces…old BMM is better than no BMM at all!
Hugs, kisses, and plenty of cookie dough to you and ONE. I’m not going anywhere!
November 16, 2009 at 10:42 am |
Good for you! I find it so hard to carve out time for that one big writing project (the novel) when there are so many little writing projects and little people to take care of. I’d love to read your book when it comes out. Have you said on these blog pages what it is about?
I look forward to reading your older pieces as I was a late-comer to your blog. Looking forward to getting to know more about you.
November 16, 2009 at 10:43 am |
I’M GOING TO MISS YOU! I’m happy things are working out for One, and I’m soooooooooo happy you are working on that book! I can’t wait to read it!
November 16, 2009 at 11:22 am |
I will miss you as well. Good luck and happy writing.
I am very happy that things are turning around with ONE. Hopefully the rest of the school year will be much happier for her.
November 16, 2009 at 11:48 am |
NOOOOOO! I cannot believe I won’t be able to read your blog anymore (for a while?) But, I wish you all the best of luck and congratulations on the book. Please let us know when it’s out (e-mail me if you can so I can pimp it on my own blog). Glad to hear things are going well with ONE and hope you and your family have a fabulous holiday season. Warmest wishes, Roxanne
November 16, 2009 at 11:51 am |
Enjoy your break. We all know how much time this stuff takes up.
Glad One is doing better.
November 16, 2009 at 12:28 pm |
Such a worthy cause, CK. Best of luck to you! We’ll all be here when you get back.
Besides, I’d much rather sit down and read your book than your blog posts. Not that your blog isn’t great, but I could use a good book soon!
November 16, 2009 at 1:16 pm |
I am so happy I met you too. I’m relieved that one is doing better, I was worried. I for one will miss you and am selfish enough to say don’t go because after all it’s all about me isn’t it. ha ha! Seriously though, good luck with the book and I can’t wait to read it.
November 16, 2009 at 1:32 pm |
Dear CK,
Am I to understand this is a break and not a break UP? And I can’t help but feel like it IS me. Have I not been a good enough reader for you?? Were my comments not enough?? Why have you put your book, children and family before me and my morning ritual? WHYYYYY??? Why cruel world? Why???? In other words….I’m really happy for you!!! I can’t wait til that book is published. I can say I knew you when…
Much love to my witty friend….
PS: and don’t think we all haven’t noticed that this hiatus comes riiiight around the release of New Moon to the silver screen. Dont’ think we don’t know!
November 16, 2009 at 1:49 pm |
aaww, bummer. hope you’re back soon! good luck on your book!
November 16, 2009 at 1:50 pm |
I suppose I can give up some daily posts in exchange for a full blown book. I guess that’s a fair compromise.
and I second Faith’s post script. She’s got you pegged.
November 16, 2009 at 3:03 pm |
You are about to turn me into one of those women who grabs her lover by the leg screaming, “Don’t leave me!” But since you’re not my lover, I guess I can’t be mad. I’m so happy for you about the book and I’m just filled with joy that things are going better with ONE; I’ve been praying about it!
We’re waiting when you get back!
November 16, 2009 at 4:24 pm |
You go do what you have to do! And good luck with your book!! Can’t wait for the info on it. So glad to hear that ONE is doing well.
November 16, 2009 at 4:57 pm |
*sigh* and I just blogged about you today. humph!
Good luck with your book! How exciting!
As for ONE, I just want to say, I had a similar moment this past Thursday. A tummy touch that even as an adult and even though it was a doctor, just didn’t feel right. It made me think of her and offer a prayer of peace for her and every little girl…big or small.
November 16, 2009 at 5:06 pm |
WOW. Congrats, amazing ck. I’m beaming with pride that yes, I “know” her! Keep us informed!
November 16, 2009 at 5:09 pm |
Hi CK,
Congratulations on the decision to focus on finishing your book! It’s going to be dynamite, I have no doubt. Congratulations, also, on the progress you’ve made with ONE. Make no mistake, you are a great mother who loves her children dearly. Everything else is just a ride — sometimes it’s high, sometimes its low, but its just a ride.
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Looking forward to your future endeavors! Can’t wait to read them!
Best,
Heather
November 16, 2009 at 6:41 pm |
*hugs* Good luck! If there is anything you need, don’t hesitate to ask. We’ll be waiting anxiously for you.
November 16, 2009 at 10:11 pm |
Best of luck to you. Hope all goes well, you finish quickly, and you’re back on your regular game.
November 16, 2009 at 11:03 pm |
Ugh! Don’t go!!
) It is AWESOME that One is doing better. That really makes me smile. Take all the time you need, I’ll be here, no, WE’LL be here. Kick ass while finishing that book and take names later! *HUGS*
November 16, 2009 at 11:08 pm |
Good luck, ck. I hope things go well with the book (and of course, with ONE.) See you on Twitter.
November 17, 2009 at 12:34 am |
Hey – I was late to the party anyway…so reading some old posts will just catch me up! Relieved to hear that ONE is doing good, that matters. And good to hear that you are doing what you gotta do. Have enjoyed reading your blog so much, can only imagine how enjoyable a book will be! Take care.
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November 17, 2009 at 2:02 pm |
Good for you on making this decision & putting yourself & your family first. Taking time away is important, even though I know how hard it is.
And I’m really happy to read that things with ONE are going better. I will continue to pray for her & you guys as parents as you support her through this process.
Can’t wait to read more when you are ready to come back here!
November 18, 2009 at 12:03 am |
Sniff Sniff! I am happy and sad at the same time! I can’t wait for the book but will miss your blog sooooo much! Good Luck! I can’t wait!!!!
November 18, 2009 at 12:03 am |
Wishing you lot of luck on your fabulous book!
November 18, 2009 at 12:24 am |
Hrrrumph! Are you sure you have to take this break? I mean, seriously?
Okay. Okay. But don’t be TOO much of a stranger! Drop by every so often and say “hey”.
So happy to hear about ONE! Lovin’ the fact that she WANTS to go to school.
Good luck on the book!
PS – I agree with Faith as well…New Moon IS only 3 days away. *wink, wink, nudge, nudge*
November 18, 2009 at 8:46 pm |
I get it.
But I will miss you.
November 18, 2009 at 8:46 pm |
I’m glad that things are getting better for ONE. Looking forward to reading older posts since I joined so late in the game.
Good luck with the book!
November 19, 2009 at 4:21 pm |
Good Luck. I’ll be waiting!
November 25, 2009 at 12:53 pm |
Have been waiting for that book for a long time now, so take all your time, do nothing else and get that book published, girl! And don’t forget, us followers want a signed copy.
So glad ONE is feeling better.
November 30, 2009 at 9:25 pm |
Just wanted to say I’ve been missing you! Hope all is well and you’re enjoying some down time during this holiday season!
December 20, 2009 at 5:27 pm |
Oh we’ll miss you so much, but yay for you and good luck hun!